For a big birthday

What to say in a birthday video

Questions for a 40th, a 60th, a 90th, or any birthday that deserves more than a card. Everyone can answer them on the spot, and they’re grouped by who you are to the birthday person.

From their partner

  1. Tell them what you love most about them
  2. What are they like first thing in the morning?
  3. What did you think of them the first time you met?

From their kids

  1. What do they mean to you?
  2. Tell them something they always say
  3. Tell them a favorite memory from growing up

From their parents

  1. Tell them how proud you are of them
  2. What’s something funny they did as a little kid?
  3. What did you think the first time you held them?

From their brothers and sisters

  1. Tell them what you admire most about them
  2. Remind them of a time growing up that still makes you both laugh
  3. What’s a song that makes you think of them, and why?

From their friends

  1. What do you love most about them?
  2. What did you think of them the first time you met?
  3. Remind them of a time you laughed so hard you couldn’t stop
  4. Tell them a favorite memory from when you were kids
  5. Tell them what’s never changed about them
  6. Tell them what you wish for them this year

From the people they work with

  1. What’s it like working with them?
  2. Tell them something they always say at work
  3. Tell them what you wish for them this year

Toast asks these for you.

Send one link to the group chat. Everyone gets questions picked for who they are to the birthday person, and records right from the link. On the day, it all arrives as one film.

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